{"id":7966,"date":"2019-10-29T17:05:21","date_gmt":"2019-10-29T16:05:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.com\/?p=7966"},"modified":"2019-10-29T17:05:21","modified_gmt":"2019-10-29T16:05:21","slug":"zostac-czy-odejsc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/?p=7966","title":{"rendered":"Zosta\u0107 czy odej\u015b\u0107?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>&#8222;Wysz\u0142am za m\u0105\u017c rok temu. Nie by\u0142am przekonana do tego \u015blubu, ale m\u00f3j narzeczony napiera\u0142, czu\u0142am mo\u017ce nie jasno wyra\u017con\u0105, ale jednak &#8211; presj\u0119, \u017ceby ten \u015blub wzi\u0105\u0107. Na dwa miesi\u0105ce przed uroczysto\u015bci\u0105 pojawi\u0142y si\u0119 stany depresyjne, totalna niemoc, by\u0142am bliska odwo\u0142ania wszystkiego, ale sala zarezerwowana, co powiem rodzinie i znajomym&#8230; Nie znalaz\u0142am si\u0142y.<br> Ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwo sta\u0142o si\u0119 faktem. Po \u015blubie pojawia\u0142y si\u0119 kolejne problemy. Mi\u0119dzy mn\u0105 a m\u0119\u017cem by\u0142o coraz gorzej, cz\u0119ste k\u0142\u00f3tnie, brak szacunku z jednej i drugiej strony. Nosi\u0142am du\u017co z\u0142o\u015bci w sobie, prowokowa\u0142am go, a on zwyzywa\u0142 mnie i popchn\u0105\u0142. Wpad\u0142am w histeri\u0119, krzycza\u0142am, by\u0142am wulgarna. Jest we mnie tyle \u017calu&#8230; Nie wiem co robi\u0107&#8230;. Jak pilnowa\u0107 swoich granic&#8230; Czy to ju\u017c ten moment kiedy trzeba odej\u015b\u0107? Czy istnieje druga szansa? Czy to m\u0105dre j\u0105 dawa\u0107? Czy mo\u017ce nie ma sensu si\u0119 oszukiwa\u0107, \u017ce cokolwiek si\u0119 zmieni mi\u0119dzy nami&#8230;? &nbsp;Wiem, \u017ce teraz wa\u017c\u0105 si\u0119 losy tego ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwa, chc\u0119 podj\u0105\u0107 dobr\u0105 i m\u0105dr\u0105 decyzj\u0119. Ale nie wiem jaka ona mia\u0142a by by\u0107. Czy mo\u017ce Pani mi pom\u00f3c pouk\u0142ada\u0107 my\u015bli?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Zostac czy odejsc\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/08feVhhyxr8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption><br>  <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p> Link do filmu &#8222;3 pierwsze kroki, \u017ce skutecznie zmieni\u0107 swoje \u017cycie&#8221;: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"3 pierwsze kroki, \u017ceby skutecznie zmieni\u0107 swoje \u017cycie\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ifuxSq9I0Vw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8222;Wysz\u0142am za m\u0105\u017c rok temu. Nie by\u0142am przekonana do tego \u015blubu, ale m\u00f3j narzeczony napiera\u0142, czu\u0142am mo\u017ce nie jasno wyra\u017con\u0105,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":7967,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7966","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-filmy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7966","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7966"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7966\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7967"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7966"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7966"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7966"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}