{"id":12894,"date":"2022-02-10T19:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-02-10T18:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.com\/?p=12894"},"modified":"2022-02-10T19:00:00","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T18:00:00","slug":"gdybym-miala-zdrowe-granice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/?p=12894","title":{"rendered":"Gdybym mia\u0142a zdrowe granice"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Tkwi\u0142am w zwi\u0105zku, w kt\u00f3rym nie by\u0142am szcz\u0119\u015bliwa. Oczekiwa\u0142am, \u017ce co\u015b si\u0119 zmieni, co\u015b si\u0119 naprawi, oskar\u017ca\u0142am mojego ch\u0142opaka i uwa\u017ca\u0142am, \u017ce p\u0142acz\u0119 przez niego. To prawda, zachowywa\u0142 si\u0119 czasem \u017ale, rani\u0142 mnie s\u0142owami, odrzuca\u0142, krzycza\u0142, a ja albo wtedy by\u0142am w\u015bciek\u0142a, albo nieszcz\u0119\u015bliwa, albo jedno i drugie jednocze\u015bnie. M\u00f3wi\u0142am mu, \u017ce nie zgadzam si\u0119 na takie traktowanie, ale wci\u0105\u017c z nim by\u0142am, wi\u0119c moje usta i moje zachowanie m\u00f3wi\u0142y zupe\u0142nie dwie r\u00f3\u017cne rzeczy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Moje usta m\u00f3wi\u0142y: – Nie akceptuj\u0119 takiego zachowania.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Moje zachowanie m\u00f3wi\u0142o: – Akceptuj\u0119 takie zachowanie i dlatego z tob\u0105 jestem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bo przecie\u017c gdybym naprawd\u0119 nie akceptowa\u0142a takiego zachowania, gdybym naprawd\u0119 mia\u0142a zdrowe granice i gdybym naprawd\u0119 szanowa\u0142a sam\u0105 siebie, to nie pozwoli\u0142abym, \u017ceby kto\u015b \u017ale mnie traktowa\u0142 i nie chcia\u0142abym by\u0107 z takim cz\u0142owiekiem w zwi\u0105zku<\/em>, tylko raczej wprost przeciwnie, chcia\u0142abym ten zwi\u0105zek rozwi\u0105za\u0107, a nast\u0119pnie po prostu bym to zrobi\u0142a!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Tkwi\u0142am w zwi\u0105zku, w kt\u00f3rym nie by\u0142am szcz\u0119\u015bliwa. Oczekiwa\u0142am, \u017ce co\u015b si\u0119 zmieni, co\u015b si\u0119 naprawi, oskar\u017ca\u0142am mojego ch\u0142opaka i<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":12895,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12894","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-fragment-ksiazki"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12894"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12894\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12895"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beatapawlikowska.norbibednar.dev\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}